Thursday, 13 November 2014

Dialogue

                       Friend: So, you think Love is overrated?
Shrink: Yes
Shrink: I do
Shrink: I didn't think so before
Shrink: But now I do
Shrink: Lol
Friend: why
Shrink: I can still fall in love and be romantic

Friend: Oh.... Tell me your love story
Friend: What happened?
Shrink: Hahaha
Shrink: Biko no love story
Shrink: But I have points
Shrink: And reasons why I think so

Friend: Point me to the reasons

Shrink: Lol
Shrink: First, look at all the relationships with people claiming to be in love
Shrink: If love were the most important thing
Shrink: It is these ones that should last
Shrink: The relationships that have so much passion
Shrink: Tend to crash faster
Shrink: Because along with love
Shrink: Comes jealousy, possessiveness and manipulation
Shrink: Suspiciousness and all sorts
Shrink: But people who are less possessive aren't prone to jealousy and much suspiciousness
Shrink: And aren't that high on emotion
Shrink: They have this stable acceptance and "loving"
Shrink: They don't go about putting it in people's faces
Shrink: That's maturity

Friend: Okay
Shrink: So
Shrink: There is something that makes relationships work
Shrink: It’s something deeper than love
Shrink: But first, people don't have an idea what it is
Shrink: Secondly, there is something deeper that's needed
Shrink: Which is what I have tried to describe
Shrink: So that's it
Friend: You got me glued to my seat.... Keep it on
Shrink: Hahaha
Shrink: No be me pour glue for your seat oh
Shrink: Biko

Friend: Now, my view
Shrink: Oh great

Shrink: Let's hear

to be continued.........

Friday, 7 November 2014

Disclaimer

I am not going to claim to have life all figured out. Life in itself is a journey and not necessarily a destination.

I will not tell you how to live your life. My life and yours are different. I can only give a guide from my experiences.

Live life on the edge and gain knowledge. Do not be afraid or too cautious in living. Make mistakes, do not avoid them, for our greatest moments are forged from them.

Be happy, worry less, laugh more with reckless abandon, love whole heartedly. Accept challenges, they make you stronger, make new friends, settle disputes quickly. Quarrels can not be avoided if we are to know each other better. Do not let the err of others be a permanent stain in your heart.

You are greater than you see yourself, strive daily to see that greatness and work/walk towards it. Push yourself to the limit, you will find out there really is no limit. Life is just elastic like that.

In all, I beg you, Live and do not just exist. In the end you are accountable to yourself and your creator. Love God with all your heart and you are on your way to been alright.